Don’t let your attitude affect your gratitude

19 11 2008

Thank you!
How can you be thankful when life doesn’t seem fair?
You can’t…
…if your gratitude is tied to your circumstances.

If gratitude is directly linked to what is happening in your life, then you will have moments where you are thankful and you will probably have long seasons where you are ungrateful. But if you can separate your circumstances from your gratitude, then you can have gratitude no matter what is happening good or bad in your life. Now I know you’re looking at me like I’m nuts thinking how can you be grateful if there isn’t something that happens to you or for you to make you thankful?

The answer is, at least according to 1 Chronicles 16:34, it’s not about something, but someone: “Give thanks to the Lord for HE is good, HIS love endures forever”. Gratitude is not about circumstances, but the character of God.

*Thanks UpStreet leaders for teaching our family this BIG IDEA this month.





Is this a promotion or demotion

19 11 2008

I just read this quote from Steven Furtick, “Often your promotion to the next level of your walk with God or your leadership will feel like a demotion rather than an advancement.”

When something has felt really hard in my life I have prayed that God might use it to take our relationship to the next level. And maybe part of the pain is because I’m in the process of being taken there. But maybe sometimes I feel that pain or stretching because God has already taken me through a process to another place in our relationship. It’s like I’m now the little fish in a bigger pond where as I had been a bigger fish in a little pond before.

Can you relate?





Don’t read this unless you’re gonna comment

18 11 2008

This is the time for all of you blurkers (blog lurkers) who come by here everyday and never speak up. Make thy self known this day by answering this simple little question:

Why be thankful (not what to be thankful for)?





A Father-Daughter Moment

17 11 2008

Sophie came out of our bedroom today and came into my study. Kristen was gone to pick up Gavin from school. Sophie hopped up into my lap and started showing me a cross necklace she has taken out of Kristen’s drawer.

I asked her what a cross was. She described it to me as only a three year old girl that loves jewelry can- sparkles and shiny and silvery. She was mesmerized by it, just staring at it as it hung around her neck.

We talked about how that was Jesus’ cross and that the cross meant Jesus loved us and that he wanted to be our friend forever. She just kept staring at the cross, holding it like it was the most precious thing in the world. She put her head on my chest, quietly looking at the cross.

I want to fix my eyes on the cross. I want to be enamored with Jesus’ cross. I want to hold on to it like it is a prized treasure. I want to just lose myself in the cross of Christ. I want to pull up into my heavenly Father’s arms, with my heart connected to his, and hear him tell me the story of Jesus’ love.





Margin

17 11 2008

Access is in the middle of a series called LO$T, talking about the freedom and joy that God wants for us through how we handle our finances (not just what the church wants from you in terms of giving). The overarching theme has been that one way you can be free and available to God is in your financial margin (expenses< income).

Andy talked about margin being “give first, save next, live on the rest”. Be generous back to God first- pick a percentage. Save second- an emergency fund, retirement, kids’ educations. Then live on the rest guilt-free.

Kristen and I have had the chance to see this actually work a couple of times in our own lives. One of those is right now. We have been a part of some big decisions recently that have made a significant impact on income. I won’t lie and say it was or is easy to make those kinds of decisions. But we believe in what Jesus is doing and we want to put all of our chips on the table. We’re bullish about God’s future. It has been the principle of give-save-live that has allowed for the financial margin to be free to do this.

Please don’t think I’m patting myself on the back or that I haven’t worried, felt insecure, cried, and laid awake at night. But God has put wise people in my life for years preparing us for this. My wife’s faithfulness, discipline, and shrewdness in handling money is inspiring. I’ve had friends and mentors directly spur me toward living with margin. It certainly wasn’t close to being about what I’ve done well. I’m just grateful to have been given this way of life.

Do you have margin financially? Do you want to be free to respond to God? Do you need practical help? Email me or leave a comment. I’ll share family budget tools I’ve created and used. I’ll pray with you. I’ll point you to godly, wise money managers.





Incarnational

14 11 2008

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Christmas is coming! Music, food, trees, lights. I love it! The best part is why: incarnation- Jesus leaving his place, priority, and position to come into our lives.

“Christmas” may just be my buzz word or tag line for how I see ministry- incarnational. Just like Jesus, I think ministry is at its best when the church leaves it’s place and it’s feeling of priority and position and goes into the world. I think the church is at it’s best when it goes to those Jesus loves and doesn’t just ask them to come to them. I think the church is at it’s best when we leave our comfort zone and get on other’s turf and terms.

We might have had one of our best moments last night as a church. We struck a deal with a local bar that let us bring in some of our musicians to play. Then we asked people to invite their friends to just hang out on their turf. The place was packed out. The bar had to call in extra servers to handle the crowd. I met tons of people who I have never seen (and may never see) at church. I had some great conversations and tons of fun.

Christmas came to Square One last night! I’m looking forward to Christmas coming to town more often.

Did you go? What did you think? Did you bring a friend? What did they think?





This does my soul well…

12 11 2008





With a pantry this full, have you ever…

12 11 2008

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… fasted?

I’m not talking like fasting for a medical test or surgery. I’m talking about fasting as a spiritual discipline? Why have you fasted? Why don’t you fast? Does fasting affect God or us? How long can you go without food safely? What happened when you fasted?

I’m seriously asking because I have come out of a tradition that never talked or practiced fasting, but I see it all over scripture. Help a brother out, would you?





What’s the difference?

11 11 2008

milkMy brother Peter just moved to Naples, Italy (his wife will join him in a few weeks) with the Navy to work at Africom for a year. Part of his biweekly ration issued to him is pasteurized instead of euro-homogenized milk.

Does anyone know the difference between the two?

And Peter, thanks for serving and protecting our freedom. Stay safe as you travel to those unnamed locations.





I kept waking up

11 11 2008

Last night started out great. Kristen cooked an awesome dinner. Some friends stopped by for a while. The kids got off to bed and went right to sleep. Kristen and I watched a few shows over a cup of tea. Then we were off to lala land.

The only problem was that I woke up at 10:24pm and then about every 90 minutes all night long until 5:30am when I couldn’t toss and turn myself back to sleep any more. So I just got up.

I brewed some coffee, grabbed my Mac, and parked it on the couch. I started looking through some blogs- nothing good. I looked at a couple news websites- nada. I looked at my email- there it was. An email from a friend that was the reason I was suppose to be up. It had been sent earlier in the day before, but I just hadn’t looked at when I shut down.

I’m asking God what to do with this awesome message. Wait, Gavin just woke up and has parked himself next to me (it’s 6:31am). So question of the day: how good are you at realizing when God is trying to get your attention?